Sling it, wing it

I love my new sling.

The fabric is perfect for hot, tropical weather and the bright print reflects the beauty of traditional culture which I love.

Sling in car

This sling was given to me by a dear Indonesian friend who bought it on one of her holidays back to her home country a few months before Roo was born.

Recently my mother in law went to Jakarta and got me this other one.

Indonesian sling

These traditional slings may not be the most fashionable to some mamas but I love them!

They consist of a broad piece of cloth, 86cm wide and 248cm long. The material doesn’t come hemmed at both ends and you could use them as is if you don’t mind the raw edges, but I plan to hem them myself.

The baby is snuggled close to the front of your body and the sling is tightened simply by twisting one end several times and tucking it to form a knot just behind the shoulder. If the baby is carried behind, the knot is tightened at the front of the shoulder.

It took me about 5 attempts to get the knot right and Roo adjusted properly in it. I daren’t carry Roo on my back yet as she’s still so little. Traditional women don’t seem fazed by the size of their babies though; I am told that when carrying their newborns on their backs they just apply the same method of carrying them in front by ensuring that the cloth goes around the back of the baby’s head so that the baby’s neck is well supported.

Here I am with 11 week old Roo. She just had a feed and wanted to be held in her favourite position, but I had to get dinner on so into the sling she went!

Sling carry

My first sling (by Little Haven) is a modern version that is adjusted to fit using two plastic rings. I still use it whenever the traditional one is in the wash. I think the rings make it easier for first-time sling wearers to tighten the sling, but it’s simply a matter of practice before one finds it just as easy to use the traditional sling.

Sling (Little Haven)

My Little Haven sling was a gift from Sweet Man’s cousin when Puppy was born, before I knew anything about slings or their usefulness. As a first time mama, friends would ask me, “Would you like —- as a gift for your baby?”. My answer was always a tentative, “Umm, yeah sure …” because as far as baby care or baby gadgets were concerned, I was utterly clueless about what was necessary or handy and what wasn’t. Saying “Yes” to my first sling was one of the best things I ever did.

Almost 8 years on, the sling is still an indispensable part of my life. I can’t imagine how I’d manage without it.

A sling helps me …

Carry Roo and keep her happy and contented if she doesn’t want to be put down alone, while I homeschool or do chores.

Nurse Roo in public without drawing any attention to ourselves, unlike nursing covers which look like makeshift blankets with little ventilation. In a sling, people mostly think she’s just sleeping.

Put Roo to sleep anywhere, in almost any situation because it mimics the close comfort of the womb.

Feel easier during shopping trips with 4 kids as we don’t have to lug a stroller around. None of my babies have been happy for long enough in a stroller anyway.

A sling also helps me ….

Nurse Roo discreetly and still be able to gaze at her sweet little face. She can look up at me, too.

Hold two little kids’ hands, carry Roo in the sling, and cross the road at the same time.

Get some weight training!

Use a public toilet, with Roo right with me, when I’m shopping alone and there’s no one to help.

Swaddle Roo after she’s finished nursing in it and I don’t want to transfer her to a swaddle blanket (as that might wake her).

Sling wrap

These are just a few things I love about my sling, but the best would be that it helps me nurse Roo unnoticed anywhere, whenever we go out, and I don’t have to waste time expressing milk or using bottles.

The first few times I took Roo out to meet friends or family, people were simply amazed that she was so quiet. She’s had some uncomfortable moments in public like other babies of course, but during those times she was just happy being in her sling!

I haven’t been using the sling as often at home these past few weeks because of the extra hot weather and it can get pretty warm snuggled up in there. Of late the temperature has improved and I’m now using it everyday.

I love my two new Indonesian slings as they remind me of how easily and quickly traditional women get back into the swing of things after giving birth.

Some women in Sarawak villages are out working in the fields just two weeks after having their babies. They simply sling their newborns onto their backs like you would a backpack and get on with work!

Don’t you love that “I can!” attitude? Just do it, mamas!


How do you keep your baby happy for a good length of time while you work? Do you use a sling too?


  • Natalie
    March 11, 2014 6:06 pm

    Yes baby wearing so comes in handy! So glad your sling is working for you! 🙂
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  • shia
    March 12, 2014 2:12 pm

    we have been using a soft-structured carrier (ssc) for the past 4 years but this time round i decided to try a Sling. since baby no2 is another preemie and a very small baby at birth, barely 2kg, i thought a sling would be good. however, i can only sling my baby in one position, tummy to tummy position. i don’t know how to breastfeed in a sling 🙁 i have a sarong panjang too, but I’m not good at tightening so i don’t use it.

    otherwise, we baby wear our baby all the time. when we travel, when we go to the mall, when we are home. we can’t live without our ssc 🙂

  • Stacey
    March 13, 2014 1:48 am

    I LOVED slinging my babes! I loved having them close and snuggly, especially when they were little. It also allowed me to actually do things!

  • Jin Ai
    March 13, 2014 3:09 pm

    “Handy” is the word! No pun intended 🙂

  • Jin Ai
    March 13, 2014 3:16 pm

    So glad baby wearing is working for you too!

    When I first started using a sling I only felt comfortable using one position at first. It took some time to learn other ways of carrying. For breastfeeding, the baby’s legs are on the side of the knot/rings, the neck is supported cradle-style using the other arm.

  • Jin Ai
    March 13, 2014 3:24 pm

    Having them so close feels incredibly nice! Warm and fuzzy!

  • Living Serenely
    March 15, 2014 12:39 pm

    My ring sling is one of my baby essentials too! But I am intrigued by the knotted version you are now using. Must check it out. Would be a great option to consider as maybe I can explore a variety of other fabrics (sturdy weight bearing ones of course) to use as a sling with the right knotting technique
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  • Jin Ai
    March 15, 2014 8:58 pm

    That’s exactly what I like about the knotted/traditional version – different fabrics. Tying the knot takes a bit of getting used to but I find it works just as sturdily as the ring sling.

  • iggy
    March 27, 2014 6:08 am

    when i had my son i tried the traditional sling but i could not get the right position and the correct knot.. I was also scared that he will fell out from it… guess i didn’t try harder. if i were to blessed with another kid soon i will definitely give the ol’ school sling another try… 🙂

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